看書發現一些關於育兒的好方法,
怕將來到合用的時候已經忘了,特此記下:
Hedrick, Lucy H., 365 Ways to Save Time with Kids (New York: Hearst Books, 1993).
#194
How can you lower our stress when you're feeding your brand new baby and your older child is jealous and demanding attention? Let your oldest feed the baby. By inviting brother or sister to hold the bottle, you're not creating bad feelings by pushing them away. And very often your oldest tires of the task and goes off to find something more fun to do. (Breast feeding? Invite brother or sister to play a music box for the baby, or if old enough, quietly read aloud.)
#258
Taking their kids to a crowded mall on the weekend is how many two-income families accomplish their errands. Remove the anxiety of losing your kids in the crowd by giving them a whistle to blow in case they get separated from you.
#283
When children don't listen and parents have to repeat what they say, it's a big waste of time. The best way to get your children to listen carefully is to listen to them. But when you have trouble getting their attention, get close to them, make eye contact, call the child by name, and gently touch them. They'll get the message and you'll save time.
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