懷孕初期，孩子在腹中，跟一個抽象概念沒有分別，
看不見，聽不見，摸不到，感覺不到，
實在難免會覺得患得患失。
老公和很多弟兄姊妹都鼓勵我，
其中一位姊妹的電郵對我影響最深，
一來是用英文寫的，讓我每一句慢慢讀，細細想，
二來我感受到雖然這位姊妹未婚，也未有孩子，
但她自己對這事的確有很深的體會，很想跟我分享。
電郵的內容是這樣的：
dear, i believe children is genuinely god's blessing,
nobody can work for it or earn it unless He grants it,
so no need to torture yrself to worry about the baby too much lah,
it's all fm HIM, our worries cannot add or reduce anything,
so maybe it's also his lesson for us to learn to be relax and rely on him,
i always think HE's the best teacher =)
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